May 02, 2005

Planning Life

Have spent the day doing what I love most…writing.

Writing thank you letters to interviewers, those that passed along my resume and those who simply talked with me when I called. I have written mother’s day cards to all the mothers I know; a get well card for my former boss and former office mate.

I have also responded to emails, written briefly in all my 5 journals, and have made some concrete plans on what on earth I’m going to with myself and with my son this summer; especially when he’s out of school at the end of June and end of August. I almost ran out of things to work on with him during spring break and I don’t want a repeat of that.

My son and I love trains so we’ll probably do a couple of those trips, in addition to the beach. We get newsletters from train museums far and wide so that we can plan train trips to special train exhibits. Last year we went as far as New Hampshire for a special historic train ride. It was fun, but the dual role of pack mule and mommy, really tired me out.

Cuddlebunny has already put in for 2 additional trips for his birthday present: a monster truck exhibition in Long Island and a NASCAR race in Pennsylvania. When he said this my mouth dropped open and I said to him, “who are you? and where have you put my son.” As I looked in his eyes (forehead to forehead) and searched in his ears and behind his back, he just giggled. When I asked him if he was serious about this he went on to give me 20 minutes worth of reasons why we should go. It ended with his famous: “Okay mommy?” Sigh! “I’ll look into it,” was all I could say. He’s such a good kid it’s hard to say no without a really good valid reason.

Monster trucks? NASCAR races? Where does he get this stuff? Sigh. It’s at times like these that my eyes go up to the ceiling and I internally wonder why I didn’t have a girl. I like race cars but to watch 30 cars go 200 laps in an elliptical circle is just a bit too much for me to watch. I like his toy trucks, but the thought of sitting there and watching a truck with huge tires crush junk cars…well, its just not exciting to me. But I love him, so…. I’ll look into it and I’ll pray that none of the dates are good for us.

So yesterday afternoon, in the hopes of getting him interested in some my favorite sports, we went to Chelsea Piers Sporting Center to watch a local hockey league game. When we got there we discovered we had lucked out. There were was a visiting Russian Team that was practicing. Boy was it exciting! I hadn’t realized how much I was missing hockey until about 20 min into the practice session. Curses on the NHL for the lockout!

Happily my son got into it, but the game was so fast paced he had problems seeing what was happening. I realized in the process that I was anticipating the plays because I’m familiar with the game. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that I’ll be able to steer him away from Monster trucks and towards hockey. Otherwise I fear that wrestling will be my next fate. That’s where I draw the line…. that’s a pseudo sport I really hate!

BTW, writing of kids, if you like kids and haven't checked out the Karnival of Kidz you should. Kids make the best photo subjects and some of these pics are pretty funny.

Posted by Michele at May 2, 2005 02:52 PM
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Trains? I'm in so much trouble as they just put in a Train Museum about 2 1/2 hours away from us. That is where we went and saw Thomas the Tank Engine. If you head down to Florida, let me know!

Posted by: vw bug at May 2, 2005 04:47 PM

If you ever get close to Green Bay Wis they have a wonderful train museum.

and come on Nascar isnt so bad though I am right with you on the whole monster truck thing and I am an educated redneck and I cant stand monster trucks lol.

Regards
GBfan

Posted by: gbfan001 at May 2, 2005 11:34 PM

GB,
I do love race cars, in college I spent many a weekend with my best friend and her boyfriend working on his race car and learning about cars.

But instead of paying and sitting in bleacher seats I'd rather watch them on TV where you get the racecar cam and can pretend you inside the car as opposed to outside. It's the only way I'll reach close to 200mph.

Posted by: michele at May 3, 2005 07:14 AM

Still keeping my fingers crossed for you on the interview front, which makes it hard to type my comment!

Posted by: RP at May 3, 2005 07:57 AM

Not that I'm a wrestling fan, but in their defense, at least they keep themselves physically fit. There are WORSE role models :-)

Posted by: Harvey at May 3, 2005 10:30 AM

I'm not much for the wrestling. But it can be entertaining if you watch it with someone who can fill you in on the "inside scoop". It's a soap opera with big (not-so) dumb hunks. Why *wouldn't* chicks dig it?

I used to watch nascar before it was popular. I still have a race / show car in the garage and plan to drive it this year. At least once. To another garage. But I may have to have it towed. I haven't started it in two years. Can't afford the fuel. :)
The race itself is rather boring. Usually very hot. Very loud. Oh, and there are a lot of *PEOPLE*. (certain expletive deleted)

Monster truck - LOUD. Put that in 96 point font. Yep, I've been around them too. Stood in their tires. The wheels are over 6' inside diameter. Did I mention they are loud? Most around here are indoors. Even louder. No, really - they are LOOOOUUUUDDDD!!!!

:)

Take a train ride to Chicago. I'll get on in Dearborn, we can pick up Machelle a little west of here and meet some more BEF Family in Chicago.

Posted by: _Jon at May 3, 2005 12:13 PM

My son read this over my shoulder and asked if we could go with Jon's plan to Chicago.

When I told it would be a 19 hour train trip, he responded, "if the train goes at 350mph and only stops for Jon we can get there sooner." Sigh! It's always so simple and uncomplicated in there world.

I don't know. 19 hours is a long time to be in a capsule with a 5 yr old. I'd have to really think about this. I really would love meeting everyone though.

Posted by: michele at May 4, 2005 07:01 PM

Your a Hockey Fan?!!

I didn't know!

I knew there was a reason I like you.

Posted by: Machelle at May 5, 2005 04:47 PM
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